What does it take to make someone be ‘the one’ for you? Is it the because they are always there for you when you need them? Is it because you feel like you can’t live without them? Or is it because you can actually live with them for the rest of your life?
I have seen people giving me at least 10 good reasons as to why they pick their partner to be their partner in the first place. My friends and I concluded that to be with someone and I mean to really be with someone, is like being with a really good pair of shoes.
It’s not because they are Christian Louboutin or Jimmy Choo shoes but because they fit you perfectly, comfortably. They are that pair of shoes you always pack in a suitcase whenever you go out traveling, it’s that pair of shoes you can wear when you go dancing and still feels great after 5 hours of non-stop dancing, it makes your feet happy!
To some that certain someone might be dark, short, rather weird looking but at the end of the day, night, and at the end of each year, you still feel comfortable with them. They might not shine out of the shoe rack but they are yours. I have my perfect pair of shoes that I take with me wherever I go, hopefully, I will find the one that fits me perfectly and comfortably too, someone I’ll definitely pack into a suitcase when I go out traveling.
