Do you often find yourself slowly falling into the pattern, the society’s pattern, the pattern of your old relationships, just the pattern, that reoccurring vicious cycle of life and it doesn’t matter which aspect I am talking about as long as well it’s a pattern.
The past week I have been thinking about the pattern, how people slowly give in to the pattern of their surrounding, giving up their belief and what they truly want because it’s not in the society’s pattern.
I realized that by following the society’s pattern of settling down because you are about to hit the number 3 is not going to solve the fact that you are not ready to settle down, it only drives you away from what you truly want, freedom, possibly the right person you’d want to be with.
Break the pattern, follow your dreams, follow your heart, say how you feel, in fact, stop freezing yourself and closing up. Let your hair down and just be different, just because you refuse to fall into the society’s pattern doesn’t mean you’re weird or unaccepted, it just means you are brave enough to embrace who you really are and what you really want, what you deserve, and what you have to offer.
Love this.So many time I feel weird or not fit in. Maybe I’m just not the pattern.
Lately, I feel like I’m too complicated with love.
I just think that ” Better than nothing is not good enough for me” And people called me ” too complicated” because I don’t follow the pattern.
I feel like “Maybe I just deserve better than this.”
When you give the feeling to someone, you want the same thing in return, isn’t it?
I still think that I rather be alone than settle for less. That’s the only way to say ” I love myself” I think. Because if someone doesn’t love me the way I should be loved. I don’t need it, my friend.